Does Penis Size REALLY Matter?

Some say it does, some say it doesn't. It is a matter of continuing controversy. Both men and women argue about it, and the issue is constantly raised in magazines. There are sometimes that size simply does matter, however. Sue from New York wrote into a popular magazine with this to say:

Sue's Frustrating Problem

"I've been dating a man for 3 months now who I think is wonderful. We get along so well and have so much in common. The only problem in our relationship is when we have sex, I can hardly feel his penis inside of me. His penis isn't long enough or thick enough to give me any sustained pleasure. It doesn’t matter what position we're in or how long it lasts, I can't feel his dick.

With previous partners, I have always been able to reach an orgasm fairly quickly, but his penis is so small, it hardly does anything to me. I feel embarrassed talking about the specifics, but his penis is about 4 - 5 inches long and quite thin, it feels more like a finger inside me than an erect penis. I try to tell myself that size doesn't matter, but the fact is that i'm getting very frustrated and need some good pleasurable sex.

Not only do I not come during sex, but I am worried he doesn't feel much either, which is making me feel like less of a woman. I don't know what other women who are in the same position do, but I’m confused and starting to get fed-up. I get along with this guy so well, and everything is fantastic, but the sex is so unsatisfying and boring. Do I finish with him and find a guy with a bigger penis? Please help me, I really like this guy. What can I do?"

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Possible Solutions

There are a few options they can try, but first she has to be able to tell her partner what the problem is - and this is going to be uncomfortable for the both of them, and put a definite strain on their relationship. Can you imagine what it would be like for a women to tell you that she can't feel your penis during sex and you're not satisfying her?

After they've discussed the issue, they can then talk about the solutions so that Sue receives the sexual satisfaction she needs to feel happy about their relationship. There are penis extender devices available online. There are sex toys that can be bought from sex shops. Her boyfriend can use them on her before and during sex to supplement his small penis.

Also there are penis enhancement techniques and exercises. There is cosmetic penis surgery (phalloplasty), but that is expensive, intrusive and carries many risks. Most men are not willing to undergo penis surgery, nor should a woman have the right to ask it of them. Then there are mechanical enlargement techniques such as penis pumps and weights. These can have some short term effect, but can also weaken and tear the delicate tissue of the penis. Pump have not been clinically proven to give any long term gains and there are differing opinions as to whether such techniques actually produce results.

There are also common exercises like the jelq and specialist penis stretching devices which are now being recommended by Doctors as a safer alternative to surgery . These exercises have been through clinical testing and have been proven to work, but both require knowledge and regular effort. Lastly there are the penis pills, which on their own don't produce any permanent gains, but when combine with stretching can be effective.

In some situations, penis size can make a huge difference, not just in terms of the quality of sex, but also as far as the comfort involved in the entire relationship.